Family does leave a great impact unto one's personality, huh?

Damn right.

What I've observed previously was the youngest child in a family is usually the most spoilt brat among all his/her siblings.

Take note that I use the phrase "usually" because not all youngest member of the siblings are having such problems. There are, of course, exceptions to the case.

And today, here I am to make my standing for another thinking of my own. It's about girlfriend and sister.

People always mention (either as a joke or stating it as a matter-of-factly) that to find out how a guy is going to treat his girlfriend in the near future, the first thing that the girl should check out is how her boyfriend treats his sister (if he has any).

I was skeptical at first, but by putting in more thoughts into the matter, I think it's quite true until a certain extent. Which is how possible will a guy treats his girlfriend well when he himself couldn't handle or communicate well with his own blood-related sister?

Make sense, right?

Actually through the time in the past, I've always envy those guys who are able to establish a well relationship with their younger or elder sisters. That's something admirable to achieve, but ironically, in today's worlds the trend is slowly fading away. There is no more the kind of strong sibling trusts, and what's worse, there are situations where brother and sister hates each other.

Disheartening, yeah, but what can be done? But back to the point, I'm leaning towards this particular school of thought of "a guy should have a well-established relationship with his own sister before spreading his love and sincerity towards his girlfriend". That's because how can you think of taking care of your girlfriend while you aren't able to treat your own sister well?

You may say that I'm bashing this sort of guys who don't even give a damn to their sisters, while claiming oh-so-well that they will and are going to treat their girlfriends well. Fat chances that they couldn't keep up with their promises. But before going into the conclusion, thinking slightly deeper...

Relationship with siblings DO relates to the relationship with your loved ones.

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