Yeah, why would I say so? Keep believing, and eventually you'll success. This is what humans normally say. Do you all agree with it?

For me, at the beginning, I do agree with it. Since my second crush, the word 'keep beliving' keep floating on my mind, telling me that 'if I believe enough, eventually I'll get the desire result'. And so, I follow what my mind had instructed, and keep believing that if I believe enough, I'll success in my 'quest'.After she first know I've a crush on her at August, that time she rejected me 'unofficialy'. My confidence was crushed that time, but my mind, it give me mentally supporting. 'Keep believing' is what I should do. I thought, 'I must keep on believing, and in the end, I may have chance her point of view, and accept me.'Following the words, I have drew up my weapon, stood up from the ground, to continue for the battle, once again, to battle with every enemies, and crushed every obstacles that blocking my path.The words 'keep believing' are just like mental food to me, to give me confidence.

Days and days passes. My efforts were all in vain, I can't really change a thing at all. Why can't I change a thing at all?After a long period of thinking, I've come out with an answer.'Keep Believing' are wrong. Sometimes, even if we believe enough, we'll not success also, this is all because another word which prove to be stronger than 'believe', which is 'Fate'.Fate, is something set by the heavens, or Gods. Once we born, and landed on this cruel world, our paths had been set already. We need to follow that path, to continue our life, and at the end of the path, or reaching the dead end, it's the end.Scattered our own paths, there's is uncountable deeps holes, which could block us from advancing, or causing us injuries. That's the time for the word 'believing' prove to be useful. 'Believe' enough, and it's a tool used to repair, or fill the holes. Without believing, the holes will never get fixed, and we'll never got a chance off passing it.Every steps we've taken on our path will make us grow up, slightly. We need keep advance, and we'll slowly be more and more mature.

Fate, and Believe is two words that will be important to our life. But fate, is more important than believing. It's just like, if you're fated with your ideal partner, not matter what happened between both of you, you two will be together until the end of your life, and for forever also. In the other hand, if you and the one you love, have no fate, no matter how hard you tried, you'll not make a change at all. Believe will also not help much. That's why Fate is much more important than Believe, but both words work as important roles for us all.Yeah, some people may say 'Fate is on our hands, and we're the one who will change it'It's not totally wrong, and yet also not totally right. Not all conditions, or situation we could apply this phrase into it. If a girl does not loves you, not matter how hard you tried to change, you'll not success.
From now onwards, I'll not stop believing, but is don't believe too much. If you believe too much, in the end you're the only one who'll get deeply suffer, and hurt.

Fate and Believe both still abstract words for me, I'm still thinking and finding a best explantion for them.But...Fate vs Believe. I'll choose fate.

posted on January 28, 2006 12:10 AM